It’s Not About Giving Up Completely, It’s About Giving In


Sladana Mitrovic
13 March 2019

Stop fighting and admit when yet another date fails and that maybe, just maybe, the problem might actually be you.

You are responsible for your dating life because your lack of clarity is biting you on the ass.

You know the definition of insanity don’t you, it’s doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.

It’s time to shake things up. It’s time to admit defeat and give in.

Giving in isn’t what you think it means. Giving in means, accepting the events of your dating life and truly looking at them through a new lens.

If you want to change the way you attract men, then reflection is key in making any long-lasting shifts.

What in your personal belief system is creating a pathway for not-so-great men to enter your life?

Your belief system acts like a magnet. If you have a belief that all men are assholes, then the Universe will bring you all the assholes.

It’s quite simple really.

So, giving in means acknowledging you can do things better and clean up your belief system.


Go back to the drawing board. Take a long look at the men you’ve dated lately, what do they have in common?
Write down all their similarities. Were they late for your date? Were they glued to their phone during the date? What was their general attitude?
This exercise will help you uncover your hidden and not so hidden beliefs.

Now write a separate list of all the great qualities you want in your dream guy.

What qualities do you admire in good men? Would you like some of that for yourself?

Giving in opens a door to healing, so take your time doing this exercise.

Once you’ve made these two lists then you’re ready for the next step.

Tune in to tomorrow blog for the next step.